Courtesy Stancil Reunion Archive
Biography
Sallie Pearl Bailey, daughter of Radford Bailey and Delia Hill Bailey, was born on April 6, 1916, in the rural farming community of Middlesex, Johnston County, North Carolina. Her entry into the world was a deeply personal family affair; she was delivered at home by Sylvia Woodard, a dedicated local midwife who helped shepherd generations into the surrounding community.
Sallie's earliest years were spent enveloped in the bustling environment of her family's farm in O'Neals Township, which her father Radford owned free and clear. The 1920 federal census (referenced in 1920 Census) captures a fleeting window of completeness for the young family; three-year-old Sallie is documented alongside her older sisters, Annie (7) and Esker (5), and her baby sister, Beulah, who was just 13 months old. Tragically, this close-knit sisterhood was shattered just three years later when little Beulah passed away on January 26, 1923. She was laid to rest in the historic Bailey Family Cemetery in Johnston County, leaving a lasting mark on Sallie's childhood memories.
Life on the Radford Bailey farm was defined by shared labor, and Delia dressed all the girls in overalls for the rugged outdoor work. As children, Annie, Esker, and Sallie all took turns behind the plow, often accompanied across the fields by a friendly yard dog. A family favorite animal was Ole Bessie, a beautiful black horse marked with a white star. When working the teams, Esker frequently plowed with a mule named Minnie, while Annie handled a black mule named Maude, who was widely known as the best mule to use when breaking tough, new land. Education and faith anchored their weeks; Annie, Esker, Sallie, and Rector all walked to the local school together, and the entire family regularly attended Stancil's Chapel Freewill Baptist Church, where both Annie and Sallie eventually joined as dedicated members.
Some of Sallie's earliest memories included sitting quietly at the foot of the family buggy when Radford and Delia drove into town. On one terrifying occasion, the mule pulling the buggy caught fright and nearly ran away, giving young Sallie a lifelong scare. When running errands, the family's favorite place to shop was Walter Bailey's Store, located one mile south of Highway 42 on Beulahtown Road.
By the dawn of the 1930s, Radford and Delia's household in O'Neals Township had grown into a bustling, energetic home. The federal census, taken on April 15, 1930 (referenced in 1930 Census), documents 14-year-old Sallie surrounded by an expanding lineup of siblings: older sisters Annie (18) and Esker (16), alongside younger siblings Recter (10), Suddie (7), Archie (5), and one-year-old baby Willie. This snapshot also reveals how closely knit her future world truly was; living just five doors down the same rural road was a twenty-three-year-old neighboring farmer named Wade Davis, the man with whom Sallie would elope just two short years later.
On Christmas Eve, December 24, 1932, 16-year-old Sallie and 26-year-old Wade Davis slipped away to get married. To pull off the holiday elopement, Sallie's older sister, Esker Bailey, stepped up to serve as their official witness, signing the register to help the young couple unite.
The early years of Sallie and Wade's marriage were marked by both profound heartbreak and deep resilience. On December 4, 1933, they welcomed their first child, a son named Rayford Davis. Tragically, their time with their firstborn was cut short when he contracted a severe respiratory infection. Rayford passed away from bronchial pneumonia at just 15 months old on March 11, 1935, in Wilson Township,as documented in Rayford Davis's death certificate. His grieving young parents brought him back to Johnston County, burying him in the familiar soil of the Bailey Family Cemetery. Joy returned to their household the following summer when Sallie gave birth to their second son, Bobby Ray Davis, on July 9, 1936, cementing the family unit that would soon be documented in the 1940 census. The young couple continued to tightly coordinate their farming efforts with Sallie's parents, notably farming one acre of tobacco specifically for Delia during the 1937 season.
As the nation plunged into World War II, the draft reached into rural Johnston County. In 1942, at thirty-eight years old, Wade completed his selective service paperwork, a milestone preserved in Wade Davis's draft card. Registering from his farm at R.F.D. #1 in Middlesex, Wade listed his birthdate as June 15, 1903—introducing a minor historical conflict with his later death certificate, which recorded his birth year as 1906. Regardless of the discrepancy, his focus remained tightly bound to home; he proudly designated his wife, Sallie, as the person who would always know his whereabouts while he continued to farm local crops to support the home front initiative.
As the community industrialized in the post-war decades, Sallie transitioned into manufacturing work. She spent years employed at Devil Dog, a regional garment factory, where she enjoyed the close daily company of her sister-in-law, Thelma Mae Bailey. On December 25, 1960—exactly twenty-eight years to the day after his parents' famous Christmas Eve elopement—their son Bobby Ray Davis married Nell Simpson (born July 2, 1939) in Wilson, North Carolina. This marriage expanded the family line into a new generation, bringing Sallie and Wade two grandsons: Robert Mark Davis, born in 1962, and Alan Shay Davis Sr., born in 1968.
The later years of Sallie and Wade's life were anchored in the deep country roads of Middlesex, where they resided at Route 1, Box 244 (later designated as 1097 Woodard Dairy Road). Wade, who spent his life farming several local crops, fell ill in the summer of 1986. He passed away from lung adenocarcinoma at Wilson Memorial Hospital on October 19, 1986, at the age of 80, a milestone preserved in Wade Davis's death certificate. Sallie was the primary informant on his death certificate, ensuring his parents, Ivan Davis and Mary Ellen Boykin, were accurately preserved for the family archive. He was laid to rest at Stancil's Chapel Free Will Baptist Church Cemetery.
Sallie survived her husband by 16 years, remaining a resilient and beloved matriarch of the family's Tempy Ann branch. On Friday, October 4, 2002, Sallie passed away at the Wilson Medical Center at eighty-six years old. Her funeral was conducted by the Reverend Allen Stanley at Stancil's Chapel, where she was buried alongside Wade. At her passing, she left behind a legacy that included her son Bobby Ray, siblings Lois, Sudie, and Fletcher, two grandsons, and three great-grandchildren, securely tying the family's farming roots to the generations of the 21st century.
— Renn Stancil Hinton, daughter of George Ralph Stancil